Despite the name of our dynamic, it is not about incest and pedophilia. We have nothing to do with sugar daddies and sugar babies either. We’re not all bratty either, well maybe a little or just playing around…
There are a lot of girls who call themselves “Lo” or “Lolita” but in general our lifestyle has nothing to do with the novel. The novel’s controversy and negative connotations around the word “lolita” is probably what adds on to the misunderstanding about our lifestyle. While there are plenty of couples and vanilla folks who roleplay incest with people online or their partners, not all of us are like that and not all of us want not to be associated with that.
I don’t doubt that there are pedophiles and creepers in this dynamic that pray on young girls who call themselves littles (you’re part of the problem if you’re lying about your age and luring men to Kik you), but a lot of us do our best to shut those folks down and report their blog. None of us wants to see any minor abused or taken advantage of because someone can’t tell right from wrong and wants to live out their fantasy.
That’s the difference here, DD/lg is a safe way for partners to live out whatever sane fantasies they have. Fantasies themselves are harmless because they’re thoughts and thoughts cannot hurt others, it’s when we lack self control and judgement that they can become a problem. However, for example, me acting like a child around my Daddy doesn’t harm either of us or anyone else.
Before you judge people whom you don’t understand, it doesn’t hurt to educate yourself a bit before making those assumptions. You might learn something new and even find out that your first impression was wrong. :)
Edit: Excuse the fact that I misspelled “pedophiles” in one of the images. I’m so ashamed.
EVERYONE REBLOG LIKE RIGHT NOW
being against gay marriage does in fact 100% make you homophobic sorry
When spoken word artist Brenna Twohy tells you that she is an unabashed devotee of all things “Potterotica” — erotic fiction based in the magical universe of Harry Potter — your response probably shouldn’t be that her taste is “unrealistic.”
I’m happy to be getting to the point where I don’t have to feel weird about enjoying fanfiction, or having written a bunch of it. Partly it’s that the fandom experience has become more broadly shared. Partly it’s that I stopped giving a shit.
And as for why I like the porny sort of fanfiction, see above. She says it better.
I like sex with context. I like sex when it involves fully fleshed out characters. I like the backstories. I like feeling like these people do other things when they aren’t having sex.
I appreciate the sentiment of this piece…
But Fanfiction.net? Seriously? Fanfiction.net hasn’t had NC-17 fics in 12 years!
"I’m sick of how bisexuality is erased in LGBT spaces. I get really nervous before any LGBT event, especially Pride. I feel incredibly sad and hopeless when gay and lesbian people call me insulting names. If gay and lesbian people don’t understand me – Continue reading Prejudice at Pride at Empathize This
This just punched me in the heart.
VIRGINIA JUST LEGALIZED GAY MARRIAGE FIRST STATE IN THE SOUTH 30 MINUTES AGO HELL FUCKIN YEA TURN THE FUCK UP IN THIS STATE FUNCTION
((Finally. Progress. I love you Germany))
THIS IS FREAKING GREAT
I love this story, but the translation is incorrect. It doesn’t say
“Love is the only way to achieve happiness”
"Love is the most beautiful way to be happy"