September 29, 2014 @ 21:37      


So I sent the mail asking for a raise and he replied and said I should call tomorrow. He practically said yes already, but now I have to call him and I really don’t want to.

And I don’t know what I will say if he asks me “how much”. Ugh!

#halp #bits and bobs
1 note       September 27, 2014 @ 09:40      

so my boss said she wants to support me asking the company owner for a raise. BUT HOW DO I ASK FOR STH LIKE THAT???????

He’s seen me work now and he just loved it’s definitely gotta be now or never. And I wouldn’t be the first to be granted a raise. But I never asked for a raise before and I don’t know how to do it? This isn’t a thing I would normally do, I would just expect somebody to give it to me? Send help???

Fun fact: when he came by our shop last week he went “you’re doing a fantastic job here” and thankfully I could stop my mouth from saying “I know.”

#my ego is too big for my own good sometimes #although i bet he'd have loved it #but what do i do now #bits and bobs
5 notes       September 24, 2014 @ 22:52      

Life is really great at the moment.

I am surrounded by wonderful people whom I may call friends. I laugh a lot. I am just generally happy and I wanted to share that with you all.

#bits and bobs #actual gpoy
2 notes       September 10, 2014 @ 23:52      

I’ve been out with friends tonight, drinking cocktails and having fun! G introduced me to two of his friends who are really cool people and who happen to be interested in BDSM! Lucky me! Seriously, I seem to attract perverts (awesome!)
Anyhow, here’s some pics of me derping around in front of a mirror. It is midnight and I am slightly drunk and happy, so it’s obviously selfie time. Please acknowledge how flawless my makeup looks after a long evening! Ha!

#bits and bobs #actual gpoy
3 notes       September 07, 2014 @ 21:37      

*throws laptop out of the window*

*sets term paper on fire*

*buries future under a pile of unfinished assignments*

*plays pokemon*

#me right now #kinky is doing university stuff she doesn't want to do #or rather has been doing all day long for way too long and now i am tired and have to work tomorrow morning and bleeeeeeh #bits and bobs
3 notes       September 04, 2014 @ 10:32      

Walking home alone at night 

Sometimes, I wonder how it must feel like to walk home at night through the darker and quieter parts of town without my heart racing with fear.
Sometimes, I wonder if I will ever stop seeing silhouettes of men behind every bush and around every corner.
Sometimes, I wonder what people must think when they see me walk in the middle of the road to stay out of reach from cars and doors.

All the time, I have to fight the fear of going out alone at night because I don’t want to let this fear restrict me.
All the time, with every step, I think about possible escape routes, think about how far I have to go until I reach the next crowded street.
All the time, my senses are going insane because I am listening so intensely for footsteps and possible threats.
All the time, I think about what I would do if I was attacked.

All the time, I think about what I would say to my rapist if I couldn’t fight him off. And sometimes, this thought makes me want to cry.

#bits and bobs #rape culture #fear
      September 02, 2014 @ 09:48      

I just really have a problem with people who blame everyone and everything but themselves for their mistakes and misfortune and who wallow in self-pity 24/7 because the world is bad and mean and they are such poor baby unicorns who don’t deserve this cruel life of friendzones and forever alone guy-hood.

#i have delt with this kind of people longer than anyone should have delt with them #and i am sick of it #they annoy the hell out of me #bits and bobs
1 note       August 27, 2014 @ 18:09      

So many written assignments this term - ugh! 

So obiously it is the best time to get out Dragon Age II and play all day long.

#look at me being a responsible student #not #bits and bobs
4 notes       August 25, 2014 @ 17:53      
My newest project is nearly finished :) It was hard to do the writing, cause no kind of pen would work on the wall and I had to do it with a brush. I am especially happy about how well the goblet/snake thingy turned out :)

My newest project is nearly finished :) It was hard to do the writing, cause no kind of pen would work on the wall and I had to do it with a brush. I am especially happy about how well the goblet/snake thingy turned out :)

#bits and bobs #kinky's handicraft #slytherin for life #slytherin #harry potter
23 notes       August 24, 2014 @ 19:12      

Wanna learn a new language? 

I recently stumbled upon this awesome website 

You can either learn an entirely new language or practice one you already learnt at school or elsewhere. It’s completely free, all you have to do is create an account. It’s kind of like a computer game, you have lives that you can lose (which will force you to start the lesson from the beginning) and the more you learn the more xp you will get. You will also get daily reminders per mail (if you want) so that you never forget to study. It’s really fun and simple.

You can have more than one language profile, meaning you can learn several languages at once.
I am currently catching up on my French, which has been a little rusty lately.
I’ve also finally started learning Spanish (which I understand because of French and Latin but which I never had the opportunity to actively learn). I can only do so in English, because the Spanish class isn’t available in German, but that doesn’t bother me.

So far, I haven’t found a single dubious thing about this website, so I can wholely recommend it!

#bits and bobs #languages are awesome #duolingo