170 notes       June 16, 2013 @ 20:23       Via

The Plight of Searching BDSM Tags 

submissivefeminist:

The BDSM tags are useful for finding specific images, but you don’t always get what you’re looking for. The following is an observation of my various results when looking through the tags.

#BDSM

  • Fifty Shades of Grey bullshit.
  • Couples with a can of whipped cream.
  • Fan art sexualizing popular cartoons.
  • Kinky screenshots of SecondLife game play.
  • Terrifying things that make me never want to go to Japan.

#Bruises

  • Hickeys, lots of hickeys.
  • Post-accident photos of injuries.

#Kinky

  • Fully dressed twelve year-olds.
  • African-American hair styles.
  • Teenagers getting drunk off the pink 34-proof liqueur by the same name.
  • Various sexual puns that are hardly “kinky.”
  • White teenage B-cup cleavage. 
#Masochist
  • Heart-broken pre-teens.
  • Heart-broken teens.
  • College transcripts/schedules.

#Slave

  • Occasional racism.

#Sub

  • Various sandwiches.
#Submission
  • Submission photos of hair styles/colors.
  • Submission photos of small penises.
  • Topless Tuesdays.

#Suit porn

  • Benedict Cumberbatch.
  • Chris Pine.

Never will I cease to be amused by the BDSM tag. I often go there when I’m bored to get mad at uneducated people, discriminating comments and other hilarities. Another one of my favourite freetime activities is to educate people in said tag. There may or may not be one certain reoccuring word. COMMUNICATION.

#bdsm
34,308 notes       June 16, 2013 @ 20:17       Via(Source)

friendlyfangirl88:

ghostanswers:

buttermilkqueen:

subway??? no man this is domway. we tell you how you want your sandwich and u shut up and eat it.

This is domway, where we pre-negotiate how the sandwich will be made with your full understanding of the ingredients and their usual consequences. If the worst happens and you don’t like the sandwich you can use a safeword, we’ll remove it and immediately stop lunch. Then we’ll remake it for you the way you like, with plenty of communication to avoid those ingredients in the future. That way you can build a foundation of trust with us, and enjoy yourself by safely giving yourselves into the hands of other sandwich-makers who have proven their responsibility and compassion with your dietary needs.

Thank you for articulating my first reaction to this post. 

#bdsm
47,453 notes       June 16, 2013 @ 08:43       Via(Source)

dolleater-lolita:

westerbroski:

triggerlocke:

submissivefeminist:

I love this commercial for really obvious reasons.

WHY HAVE I NEVER THOUGHT OF DOING THIS?!

shhh

just watch

holy fucking best commercial ever

#oh well #bdsm #kind of
3 notes       June 07, 2013 @ 09:34      

The person you have spanked is temporarily not submissive.

#bdsm #read that on a friend's fetlife profile and couldn't resist sharing
3,904 notes       June 02, 2013 @ 09:01       Via(Source)
femsubdenial:

skweakyjo:

my nipples are hard just watching this…I think I have super sensitive nipples…I can come just by someone doing this

Mmm… something on my bucket list is to spend an eternity teasing someone using only her nipples while she’s restrained, thighs spread wide open.

How to not turn me on at all: play with my nipples/breasts. It just won’t work. They are terribly insensitive and every time someone wants to suck on my breasts or wants me to suck on theirs, I just have to think of breastfeeding which obviously turns me off in no time.This is one of those “ok, fine, do it if you have to and tell me when you’re done” things.

femsubdenial:

skweakyjo:

my nipples are hard just watching this…I think I have super sensitive nipples…I can come just by someone doing this

Mmm… something on my bucket list is to spend an eternity teasing someone using only her nipples while she’s restrained, thighs spread wide open.

How to not turn me on at all: play with my nipples/breasts. It just won’t work. They are terribly insensitive and every time someone wants to suck on my breasts or wants me to suck on theirs, I just have to think of breastfeeding which obviously turns me off in no time.
This is one of those “ok, fine, do it if you have to and tell me when you’re done” things.

#bdsm
3,219 notes       June 01, 2013 @ 10:22       Via

I can’t even tell you how much I want to do this to a guy at some point in my life. I would have him heavily restricted, of course…

#bdsm
8 notes       June 01, 2013 @ 10:12       Via
#bdsm #tea and coffee
5 notes       June 01, 2013 @ 09:45       Via(Source)

Female Teasing and Denial: Right question, wrong audience. :-) 

femsubdenial:

bind-free:

would it be wrong to ask for punishment

No… well… IMHO maybe.

I don’t think it’s wrong to explain how you’re feeling and why, and request a beating because you think that would help, as long as you leave the decision up to him. Maybe you’re just sad or angry or pent-up and need…

COMMUNICATION!

I can never resist to scream this word at anyone who asks questions like these.

Now, I don’t know the background story to this but frankly I don’t need to in order to give you some advice.
Firstly, to me, there is a huge difference between a punishment and other corrections like beatings or whatever floats your goat. I would never want to be punished without having done anything. Punishments are very hard to deal with, mentally. They are supposed to make you feel guilty and make you reflect on what you did wrong etc. However, they also serve the purpose of freeing you from any feelings of guilt. Once a punishment has been inflicted, the misconduct has been dealt with.
So: if you’re feeling guilty for anything and your Dominant maybe just doesn’t know how a certain situation made you feel: tell him. Nobody knows what is going on in your head except yourself. If you feel like you did something wrong, then simply go and tell him. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. This has nothing to do with topping from the bottom, it is perfectly fine for submissives to express their desires. They have just as much to say as the Dominants have when it comes to this. Of course, it will stay your Dominant’s decision what to do with the information you gave him but he can’t do anything if he doesn’t know what’s going on.

If you simply feel the need for a beating etc, then tell him exactly that but don’t call it punishment. Ask him nicely, telling him why you would want to get beaten and leave it up to him to fulfill this need in a way he deems appropriate. If he is a good Dom and cares for you, he will. Maybe not in the way you thought was best, but certainly in an effective way nonetheless.


Bottom line is: Never be afraid to communicate your needs. There is nothing bad about saying what you want, so long as you don’t go about and order him to do this and that.

#bdsm #kinky is educating again
1 note       May 31, 2013 @ 19:20       Via
wellreadandboundinleather:

IT IS HERE!!!
Sorry for the crappy quality
- Kinky

wellreadandboundinleather:

IT IS HERE!!!

Sorry for the crappy quality

- Kinky

#yeeeeeeeessssssssssss #bdsm
565 notes       May 31, 2013 @ 19:15       Via(Source)

barronis:

malepet:

Four inventive approaches to cock torture

Very interesting, i like the involuntary muscle jerks.

#bdsm